How to use time well
Ours is a culture of rush, grind and burnout. It’s a legacy we’ve inherited from the Industrial Revolution, which coupled time with money, rather than money with output. But it doesn’t have to be this way . . .
You can’t afford to ignore happiness
Happiness might seem like a silly thing for a business to focus on. But there’s a very clear link between how your people are going, and how your business is going.
3 unconventional ways to get through the recession
The Governor of the Reserve Bank has made it clear - New Zealand is heading for a recession, or period of negative economic growth. It’s not a rosy time, but there are three unconventional, evidence-based, life-affirming tactics we can use to help us get out of this mess - job redesign, more flex, and reexamining the relationship between love, capitalism and Christmas.
Do you judge yourself for feeling sad or lesser-than?
The toxic positivity movement has pathologised normal feelings - so a bad mood often comes with a side of self-judgment. But there are a few powerful antidotes, like empathy, remembering to ‘HALT’, and laying down the b-s so you can be more real with others
A no-BS, evidence-based guide to knowing what you want and going after it
Do you know what you want? Not for lunch or dinner, but in a big-picture sense? It’s a question that’s surprisingly hard to answer. Here are 4 evidence-based steps to help you get clarity and get going.
How to have more fun
The cat in the hat was right. It is fun to have fun, but you have to know how. Do you?
Let’s make it so people don’t need to fake it
We need to stop telling people to 'fake it 'til they make it', while also talking about the importance of authenticity and 'bringing your whole self to work'. Those things don't compute.
What about we focus on 'making it so people don't have to fake it'? Here’s how to start…
Are your change efforts hampered by ‘cruel optimism’?
Change your life in 3 easy steps! Lose weight in 10 minutes a day! This kind of ‘cruel optimism’ suggests that socially-created issues can be solved by individual effort, and quickly. It’s a kind of magical misdirection that leaves us feeling worse, when we don’t manage to drive change. So what’s a better way? (Read on for more! Complete with real-world success stories! No, really, that’s true.)
A strategy for getting unstuck
Ever feel like you’re going around in circles, trying to decide a way forward? When it comes to getting unstuck, neuroscientists reckon you should pay more attention to what’s going on in your body, not just your brain
A New Year’s resolution: To stop making resolutions
New Year’s resolutions have been around for about 2000 years, but do they really help us to live more fulfilling lives? Or do we need to switch up our focus, in order to uncover more of the gold in our lives?
Job boxes, career paths, and the value of hindsight
Are you struggling to fit yourself into just one job ‘box’, or to find a clear path in your career? That’s a pretty common feeling. But it doesn’t mean you need to change… Here’s why.
When good advice goes bad
We all love a pithy, profound piece of advice. But good advice turns feral when we just ‘copy and paste’ it from one context to another, without questioning whether it’s serving us well.
Silver Linings Staybook: how to keep the good parts of lockdown, after it ends
Even though lockdowns are incredibly difficult for many individuals and organisations – there are some silver linings that we should try to hold onto, once life returns to normal.